“This isn’t my leg” I repeated emphatically. We were standing in my chiropractor’s office, looking down at my leg. Erin-the-chiro glanced at me quizzically to check for humor, but this was a serious matter. I continued, “I don’t remember when it happened, it’s been many years. One day I was putting on my running sneakers and the right one didn’t fit well. And my knee feels uncertain when I squat, and my hip is always hurting…”
She offered, “Why don’t you lay down and we’ll see what we can do. Sometimes one leg can be shorter than the other. That would explain your symptoms and discomfort.” I was momentarily excited by this notion: finally the mystery of the foreign limb would be solved! Positioning myself on the massage bed I recalled Oliver Sacks’ story about a man with a psychogenic leg paralysis who denied that one of his legs was his, insistently throwing it out of bed only to find himself on the floor. I hoped mine wasn’t a neurological case. Before I could wander too deeply into depersonalization and the phantom leg syndrome, Erin announced that my legs were, in fact, the same length.
Well, shoot.
She was earnestly concerned as I went on to describe my sensations. “It’s always giving me trouble. The left leg is perfect: it walks, runs, bounces, bends, sits, sleeps…and I don’t even think about it. It’s quiet and humble. It does its job and makes no demands. This right one though is a drama queen: you can’t please it! The pants are itchy, there is tingling when I sit, it always wants to curl outward a little, I can’t sleep on it, and most importantly, the shoes. No matter how many months I’ve been wearing a pair of sneakers, every time I put them on, it complains. The shoe doesn’t fit. It’s like someone else has been wearing it and molded it all wrong…” Erin kept listening while thinking of next steps. “Isn’t there some leg depot?!” I wailed in exasperation. “I just want to exchange it. Someone probably picked mine up by mistake and I want it back, and I’ll gladly return this one.” She giggled and set to work, aligning and stretching, doing her miracle work that always returned me limber and hopeful.
Next morning while jogging, I mulled over the familiar problem. It wasn’t always this way. When did the switcharoo happen? What was I missing (beside my old leg)? Wasn’t there som…And then it hit me.
I remembered.
The blazing, wild sun. The whipping frisk wind and blinding snow and a scarf wrapped around my neck and that indomitable flavor of vigor. I am riding a lift up Mammoth Mountain. I am a freshman in college, here in the Californian Sierras with the Korean Christian Ministry – a group of people who can become my friends that I just met in college. It’s fall break and we’re on an adventure! This is the second time I’m skiing in my life but it’s already afternoon, so I’ve had a few bunny slope successes and am feeling more confident. I lumber off the ski lift and turn to where I believe is the familiar route I’ve been taking. The wind picks up and there’s a flurry of flakes and people and ski poles and helmeted snowboarders. I lose my bearings for a second but then I spy the descending slope and make my way down. Ten feet into the descent there’s an unfamiliar sign with a black rhombus on it. Something of a threat flickers in the back of my mind…I’ve only been seeing green…but I refocus quickly as this route appears more challenging.
Next thing I know, I’m going too fast to turn.
Next thing: I’m in the air.
Next: poles, skis, impact; an uncomfortable squelch in my right knee.
I make it down the slope high on adrenaline and low on O2, but am not up for any more skiing, and as my leg proceeds to swell tightly against my pant leg towards evening, I have to admit that there might be a problem. While everyone is celebrating the day in a Christian, wholesome way in the cabins, two of the KCM leaders take me to the village urgent care: a single-room office in ski-town. After some X-rays and palpations, the doctor comes out with a verdict. He asks me how old I am. What am I doing there and what my plans are. Eventually he gets to it. I have torn a ligament in my knee. A soft cast and several months on crutches will help it grow together.
But, he says, “your leg will never be the same again.”
Oh, buddy. You can say that again.